Some people are natural social butterflies, while some find it hard to even start a conversation. Feeling shy is not a bad thing, however, your life will be so much better if you overcome your shyness. How to be less shy? You can combat your fear of talking to people by talking to one person at a time, baby steps just like what they say. Then gradually work your way to talking to smaller groups and then larger groups. Smiling again with confidence will help attract new friends and will encourage you to step out of your comfort zone.